AUTHOR: PATRICK SIMIGLAI
FUELED BY PAIN – Book
Discover 23 mental techniques to transform your life.
Patrick Simiglai is a former gang member and addict – starting far behind the starting line, self-pity had him in its grip. Today, he is the inspiration he once needed for himself. With 6 marathons completed in 45 hours, learning English in 2 years, and writing a book, Patrick is now a popular speaker, frequently hired by schools, the police, and businesses.
COMING SOON
Admirable
It’s admirable what the bright, happy, and incredibly positive Patrick Simiglai has achieved in his young life. But that’s not how it started for him.
The first time I heard his childhood story, I was on the verge of tears. I had never heard of such a harsh, brutal, and violent upbringing. But, like a miracle—and important for us all to remember—a personal choice changed everything in Patrick’s life.
Hugs and love – your friend,
Ole Henriksen
Founder of Ole Henriksen Skincare
Patrick Doesn't Give Up
Patrick was aspirant number 13 in season 6 of ‘Korpset – Made of the Right Stuff.’ After a somewhat confused start, Patrick found his footing, and as the hours and days passed, he showed that he was indeed made of ‘the right stuff.’ He demonstrated physical strength and stamina, but more importantly, a remarkable mental resilience that my instructors and I increasingly recognized. It was clear that Patrick wasn’t going to give up.
Thomas Rathsack
Chief Instructor, Korpset
Highly Motivated!
When I first met Patrick at the casting for Stjerne Boksning, I quickly sensed his energy and drive! He was highly motivated and ready for the journey ahead. Patrick has told me many stories about what he has achieved and what he has been through. And I have to say, once you hear his story, there’s no way you can’t respect this man.
Cengiz Salvarli
Founder of Stjerneboksning
ABOUT THE BOOK
Experience an incredible journey and be inspired to find your own transformation with concrete techniques.
From a dysfunctional childhood filled with abuse and neglect, I was drawn into the criminal path. The school system couldn’t handle me, and I found validation in a dangerous gang environment. This led to a life of alcohol, drugs, prison, and immense debt. In the midst of the chaos, however, I found the strength to change my life. Inspired by the Navy SEALs, I embarked on a journey of transformation. Step by step, I overcame the fear of my thoughts and emotions, expanded my mental boundaries, and became a better version of myself.
Through extreme challenges such as ultra-marathons, rope climbs, and marathon swimming, I’ve discovered unknown parts of my mind and aim to inspire others to find their own strength. Despite a history of alcohol abuse and low self-esteem, I’ve managed to transform my life. Moreover, I’ve learned English and written this book. I’ve paid off my debt, achieved incredible accomplishments, and now serve as an ambassador for charities, supporting children who deserve a second chance.
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PROLOGUE
“Shit – my front tire just blew out” was my first thought, and before I could react with any rational thoughts or ideas, the car started spinning out in the middle of the highway. The Audi was completely out of control, spinning so fast that I quickly, but surely, lost all sense of direction and the ability to correct the car.
Suddenly, the most insane thought came to me – out of nowhere. In that moment of chaos, the skidding, the noise of the car, the smoke, and the clatter, I had the distinct feeling that this was it, I was going to die. Strangely enough, I felt at peace with it, but I didn’t want to leave this world with the impression that I had failed or hadn’t succeeded at anything. Determined to leave one final message to whoever would find me when I was dead and gone, I braced both legs against the bottom of the car and pressed my arms hard against the steering wheel. Totally surreal, I began to smile, convincing myself in that moment of chaos that when they found me dead, it would be with a smile on my face. I barely had time to think about the smile and tighten every muscle in my body before the Audi smashed head-on into the guardrail with tremendous force.
Glass shards and twisted metal flew around the cabin and onto the road. There was the smell of burnt rubber, hot metal, and diesel in the air for a few seconds. My brain struggled for a split second to understand if everything was over, if I was now on the other side, or if I had somehow survived without injury.
As quickly as the car had come to a stop, from 230 to 0, just as quickly my entire life was turned upside down. Despite the harsh crash, I managed to crawl out of the car in one piece, and slowly reality began to set in. I had destroyed my ridiculously expensive Audi, I had been driving under the influence, and I had just thrown everything away. I ran from the scene and tried to figure out what to do next.
In truth, I was completely lost and had no idea what to do. Then the rational part of my brain suddenly started thinking about the Audi, now sitting in the middle of the highway. So, just to do something constructive, I called a tow truck and asked them to take my car to the repair shop so it could be fixed and ready to drive again.
But not only had I totaled the Audi for a staggering sum, it was practically useless now. As a metaphor, you could say the same about me.
Even though I survived – I was haunted by the little voice in my head that constantly berated me. The voice questioned why I was still alive: “Why the hell couldn’t you just die, you coward – you couldn’t even manage that.” That same voice is now my greatest mentor and advisor, but we’ll get to that later.